Vague posting is lame. Talk to the people who are bothering you. Use “I feel” statements rather than placing blame on them or saying things like “you made me”. Directly talk to the people you’re bothered by. Take responsibility for your actions and for how they tell you they feel. Talk to people, not about them. Accept that resolution may not be what you expected, or that sometimes you have to let things go.
Communicate effectively. Vague communication isn’t communication.